I am looking for someone who will devote the same amount of energy to a relationship that I will. I would like to know your likes and dislikes as well as your future goals in life. I would like to know our common interests, and what excites you, what makes you happy. What would be your idea of the perfect weekend in your mind. Recently divorced. I am at that stage of my life that I want to devote a lot of time and care to my partner. It was not always a case. For last few decades I used to run my own business and has been working for 14 hours a day, seven days a week. Now I only work normal hours.