Thoughts About Letting Go and Moving On
Sometimes in our relentless efforts to find the person we love, we fail to recognize and appreciate the people who love us. We miss out on so many beautiful things simply because we allow ourselves to be enslaved by our own selfish concerns. Go for the man of deeds not for the man of words, for you will find rewarding happiness not with the man you love but with the man who loves you more. The best lovers are capable of loving each other from a distance---far enough to allow each other to grow, but never too far to make you feel that you have to let go of each other. This doesn't mean you have to stop loving. It only means that you allow that person to find his own happiness. Letting go is not just setting the person free, but it is also setting yourself free from all the fear that are kept in your heart.
Do not let the bitterness rare away your strength and weaken your faith, and never allow the pain to dishearten you. Rather, it should make you stronger. We can all survive with just all of the beautiful memories of the past but real peace and happiness comes only with an open acceptance of what reality is nowadays.
There comes a time in our lives when we chance upon someone so nice and we just find ourselves attracted to that person. This feeling soon becomes a part of our everyday lives and eventually consumes our thoughts and actions. The sad part of it is when we begin to realize that the feelings he might have for you is just too far from how you loved him.
We start our effort to get noticed and be closer to that person but in the end our efforts are still unrewarded and we end up being sorry for ourselves. You don't have to be bitter for love. What you need is to accept the verdict of reality without being bitter and sorry for yourself. Believe me... you would be better off giving that dedication and love to someone more deserving.
However, if a person really loved you once, even after a hundred years, there will still be some of the love left no matter how much that person denies it.
Don't let your heart run your life. Be sensible and let your mind speak for itself. Listen not only to your feelings but to reasons as well. Always remember that if you lose someone, a better one is coming tomorrow, and if you lose love, that doesn't mean that you failed in love. Cry if you have to, but make sure that the tears will wash away the hurt and the bitterness that the past has left you.
Let go of yesterday and love will find its way back to you. And when it does, pray that it may be the love that will stay and last a lifetime. When you lose someone and you think you were the one who loved most between the two of you, he lost more. For someday you can love someone that way that you loved him but HE WILL NEVER BE LOVED AGAIN THE WAY THAT YOU DID.